
Are you tired of feeling trapped in that exhausting cycle of anxiety, worry & fear of abandonment caused by your anxious attachment style?
Is your relationship or dating life suffering because of it?
Have you tried the affirmations & mindset approach but it's just never stuck long term?
I did it in just 3 months!!!
Once I stopped trying to mindset my way out of it, and finally realised it was rooted in past trauma and started healing my attachment system using my signature Somatic Shadow Work Method
& I've helped soooo many of my clients do the same!

Finally feel calm, safe and completely at home in yourself instead of living in constant fight-flight-freeze survival mode
Stop spiralling into anxiety and overthinking at the slightest hint someone may pull away or not be interested
Move through life with deep self-trust, knowing you can handle whatever comes your way.
Stop chasing emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or toxic people and settling for sh*tty treatment.
Date with confidence, self-worth, and high standards which makes you a magnet for secure, high quality people.
Feel at peace in secure relationships because this is your new normal!
Know how to quickly & effectively soothe yourself when you get triggered (no more looking for someone or something to "fix" you)
End unaligned relationships with total confidence and trust knowing you're one step closer to meeting your person.
MY TOP-SELLING GROUP PROGRAM IS BACK!

In this 5-week online group coaching program I'll be sharing EVERYTHING (no gatekeeping) that's helped me and many of my clients overcome anxious attachment, chronic relationship anxiety and fears, and become the most secure I have ever been in myself…
... which then led me to calling in the secure man of my dreams too (who I've now been with for almost 3 years)!
In this program you will:
>> Identify the root cause of your anxious attachment & how to heal the wounds that caused it.
>> Learn how to break yourself out of the anxious attachment spiral that forces you to panic, question yourself, and chase or cling to relationships, by using powerful somatic self-soothing tools.
>> Unpack the anxious-avoidant trap so you avoid unhealthy, triggering relationships & attract the love you deserve!
>> Begin rewiring and priming your nervous system for safety, security and peace, (and overcome your addiction for chaos in life and your relationships)
This is exactly how I and my countless client have gone from anxious to secure, & now I’m passing it onto YOU 


If you're reading all this and thinking "yeah this sounds great but I've been trying to heal my anxious attachment for month/years and it's never stuck"...
You are not alone sis & there's nothing wrong with you!
It's because you've been trying the wrong approach!
Anxious attachment isn't in your brain or your thoughts... it's wired into your BODY!
And all the mindset work you’ve done - talk therapy, life coaching, reading the 'Attached' book, affirmations, or “positive thinking” - hasn’t *actually* healed the root cause…
Your nervous system (aka autopilot) is still wired for anxious attachment.
Those old trauma and survival responses from your inner child, your parent wounds, and abandonment experiences are still running the show.
This is why “just think positive” or “think secure” doesn’t work!
️Your mind can’t override a dysregulated nervous system.
In Anxious To Secure, you'll finally do the healing work that WORKS 
Inside this program I will introduce you to:
My Attachment System Healing Triad which focuses on healing the root causes of your anxious attachment: Inner Child Work, Parent Wounds & Attachment Trauma
My Somatic Shadow Work Method where I use my specialised somatic, emotional processing and energetic trauma healing modalities that heal trauma 10x faster than talk therapy because it works to rewire your nervous system and subconscious mind (aka your autopilot).

5 WEEK LIVE GROUP COACHING PROGRAM
Weekly live group calls (including somatic modalities & self-soothing tools, & embodiment practices)
Private group chat for messenger coaching & support in-between calls
Join a community of like minded women also healing their anxious attachment (you're not alone)!
- INTRO MODULEATTACHMENT STYLE 101:
This is your introduction to Attachment Theory & all four Attachment Styles so you can evaluate where you fit in (and even your partner).
In this pre-recorded module you will…
Understand your attachment style & how it influences the way you show up in your relationships.
Identify what it looks like to be securely attached and what all the hype of being in a secure relationship is about.
Start to explore the Anxious-Avoidant trap - WEEK 1: UNCOVERING THE CORE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WOUNDYour anxious attachment is a trauma response to your earliest experiences of love, connection & relationships feeling uncertain, unsafe or inconsistent.
And this also the cycle you keep subconsciously repeating in your adult relationships because your nervous system is so familiar with it.
The key to becoming secure AND breaking this cycle is finding the root cause of it.
This week you will...
☑️ Be introduced to my Attachment System Healing Triad
☑️ How to heal inner child, parent wounds and attachment trauma - aka the root causes of your anxious attachment - using my Somatic Shadow Work Method
☑️ Somatic Modality: Meeting the anxious little girl within - WEEK 2: STOP THE ANXIOUS SPIRAL WITH SOMATIC SELF-SOOTHINGThis is where you start building your somatic self-soothing toolbox as I teach you a variety of actionable and effective practices to interrupt the anxious spiral before it drags you down.
One of the biggest pieces of feeling secure and safe in yourself, is knowing how to self-soothe when you get triggered. Because then you stop looking for someone or something outside of yourself to "fix" you AND you trust that're capable of handling whatever life throws at you!
This week, you’ll learn:
☑️ How to soothe your wounded inner child, who is the part of you that’s actually getting triggered.
☑️ To have a conversation between the different parts of yourself
☑️ How to regulate your nervous system, find safety in yourself and move through triggers quickly using powerful somatic self-soothing tools.
☑️ SOMATIC PRACTICE: I will guide you through a variety of my somatic self-soothing so you know exactly what to do and what it feels like, whilst in a safe expert-guided space.
You finish this module with a stack of anxious attachment spiral relief tools you can begin using immediately! - WEEK 3: THE 5TH ATTACHMENT STYLEEver read a typical description of Secure Attachment and thought "that feels so impossible for me... I don't know if I'll be secure!?"
That's because it's based on someone who was born into a family with secure, emotionally available & consistent parents, so naturally developed a secure attachment themselves.
For those of us who DIDN'T have that kind of childhood, becoming secure actually looks a bit different...
Enter the 5th Attachment Style: LEARNED SECURE ATTACHMENT
This week I will teach you:
☑️ The pillars to developing a learned secure attachment
☑️ How to stay secure even when you get triggered or life throws you a curve ball
☑️ - WEEK 4: EMBODYING YOUR MOST SECURE SELFThis juicy week is where you get to experience, in your body, what it feels like to be a secure woman in yourself & your daily life!
You're not becoming secure just so you can find a partner, you're doing it first and foremost for yourself (a secure relationship is a ripple effect of you becoming secure woman)
This week is all about:
☑️ Becoming secure in yourself FIRST (regardless of your relationship status, and before you start dating)
☑️ Tough self love & pushing past resistance as you ditch old anxious patterns and step into your most secure self!
☑️ Ways to CHOOSE to be a secure woman every day, in every part of your life!
☑️ SOMATIC PRACTICE: Embodying the Secure Woman - WEEK 5: DATING, LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS AS A SECURE WOMANBecoming secure is the single biggest thing you can do to transform your love life, reclaim your power in dating & break your toxic relationship cycle!
This week we'll dive into...
☑️ Unravelling the Anxious-Avoidant trap & why you keep getting sucked into it (even though you're consciously saying "I want a nice, secure guy!!")
☑️ Avoid the avoidant in dating & becoming a magnet for secure people instead
☑️ How to rewire who your nervous system is attracted to
☑️ How to move forward if your current partner is avoidant.
You're 100% DONE with feeling anxious and insecure
You've tried the mindset and affirmations approach... but it hasn't stuck long term.
You’re ready to feel calm, secure, and unshakable in yourself, no matter what’s happening in your life or relationships.
You’re ready to break old cycles, release anxious patterns, and finally stop self-sabotaging in love.
You’re committed to doing the deep work that transforms your nervous system, heals past wounds, and creates lasting, secure confidence in dating and relationships.

“This course helped me in more ways than I thought it would. It gave me the strength to unlock my self worth again! This is worth the investment!”
- K, NZ
(Chose herself and left her toxic, abusive marriage after the program)
“This program allowed me to recognise, define, process and heal with momentum while feeling extremely supported, loved, heard and empowered. Thank you, Kendall! This girl knows her sh*t!”
- Josie, USA
(She is now in committed, secure relationship with a lovely man)
“I did the attachment quiz again (not long after doing this course) and actually SECURE came up! So it’s official! And the extra tools I’ve got from this I can use the next time I spiral a little.”
- Tammy, NZ
(She is now engaged to her dream secure man!)
"I can pick myself up and not have to rely on external validation of a partner to feel worthy. I don't find myself searching for acceptance from others because I'm secure in who I am. I owe so much of this to you Kendall and the tools you have given me!"
- Mel, USA
(Living her best securely single life and loving it!)

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Women’s Life Coaching Contract
All Payments are paid to Kendall Brown via payment processing through Thrivecart and Stripe. These are both safe and secure payment processing platforms, none of your details are stored on file.
Your initial payment (either full price or first payment of your payment plan) is what secures your spot in the program. Your spot is not secured until this is paid.
For digital pre-recorded courses there is NO refund, cancellation or “change of mind” policy.
For live events there is NO refund, cancellation or “change of mind” policy.
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By signing up to a program using a payment plan, you are agreeing to pay the full amount across the agreed upon length of time, at the agreed upon times (eg Weekly, fortnightly, monthly). There are no refunds.
If you decide to pull out prior to the commencement of the program, your future payments will stop but you will not receive a refund of payments already made.
If you decide to cancel and pull out of the coaching container or program once it has started, you will not get any refunds and you are liable to pay the remaining balance of your payment plan in full.
For digital pre-recorded courses there is NO refund, cancellation or “change of mind” policy.
For live events there is NO refund, cancellation or “change of mind” policy.
The card you used to pay the deposit is the one that will be recharged for your rebills. Please make sure you have the funds available on this card at the date it is due to be re-charged.
Failure of payment may result in a $25 USD charge per day of failed and late payments. Please contact me if you know of any issues as to why your payment may fail PRIOR to your recharge date, so we can organise a solution.
If the payment fails the first time, I will notify you and the card will be automatically re-charged in 24hrs.
If the payment fails a second time without explanation, you will be removed from the program and won’t have access to my coaching, any of the material or my services UNTIL you have paid what is outstanding.
Repeat failures may result in your permanent termination from all of my coaching services and legal action may be taken to collect the outstanding money that is owed to me.
Coaching Commitment
You understand coaching is a professional client relationship you have with your Coach, that is designed to facilitate the creation/development of personal, professional or business goals and to develop and carry out a strategy/plan for achieving these desired outcomes.
Once we begin our Coaching Container together, I as the Coach am fully committed to you and your success. I know you will be fully committed to yours too. This commitment includes you going through the entire coaching program from start to finish. You understand and agree that as the Client, it is your sole responsibility to care for your physical, emotional and mental well-being during your coaching sessions and container including your choices, decisions and actions undertaken.
You understand that Coaching is a comprehensive process that may involve all areas of your life, including work, finances, health, relationships, education, recreation and more. You acknowledge that deciding how to handle these issues, incorporate coaching actions/homework etc into those areas and implement your choices is exclusively your responsibility
Confidentiality
All matters discussed between us whether in person, via phone, ZOOM, email, or Whatsapp remain fully confidential. You understand that certain topics discussed in coaching sessions may be anonymously and hypothetically shared anonymously on social media for training and marketing purposes.
Share with me all your amazing wins, reflections, realisation and challenges. This will happen via WhatsApp (if the program you are joining has WhatsApp support). You give me full permission to share on my social media, with all Privacy Policies in place and personal details completely blocked out.
Actions
You will only gain wonderful momentum in your Coaching Container if you undertake agreed inspired actions and homework between coaching session. You agree to perform all actions set for you between sessions and advise me if they are not going to be completed.
You will not hold me responsible for not achieving, (in whole or part), any of your goals and recognise that outside of Coaching Sessions your stated actions can only be carried out by yourself. We will cover an extensive amount and do the majority of the work in our sessions together. The only way you will not achieve your desired results is, if you do not do the work and are not showing up for yourself and fully commit.
Coaching Methods
You acknowledge that the coaching container may be personally challenging at times and give rise to ALL sorts of feelings and emotions. It’s in acknowledging these difficult emotions that we are able to heal and grow. However, you will not hold me liable for any loss or cost incurred by you in the event of mental, physical, emotional, stress or distress caused directly or indirectly in relation to your coaching series. You will indemnify me in the event of any such claim.
Intellectual Property
You have no right to use or reproduce any of the resources or materials, processes, techniques, presentations, methodologies used by me, created by me and given to you in our Coaching Series, outside of our Coaching Container. Any processes, techniques, presentations, methodologies, resources or materials I share with you, is the intellectual property of Kendall Brown Wellness. It is not to be reproduced even in part, without written expressed permission from Kendall Brown. This falls under Copyright Notice.
Professional Advice:
You understand Coaching is not to be used as a substitute for professional advice. You will seek independent qualified professional guidance for medical, financial, business, spirituality, mental health or other matters. You understand it is your sole responsibility in making your decisions and taking action regarding these areas. You understand Coaching is not meant to be used in the place of diagnosis, treatment or therapy or as a service in replacement of treatment for mental health illness from Professionally Qualified Counsellors, Psychiatrists, and Psychologists.
Cancellation, Refund, ‘Change of Mind’ Policy
This Coaching Agreement has a NO refunds, cancellation or ‘change if mind’ policy. You must be “all-in” and whole body YES! This is all about commitment, taking action, dedication, putting in the work and doing the things. I show up to every single session, email, text, voice memo with 100% commitment and high-vibe energy, because I know how powerful this work is and I want to see you transform and get the long-term, sustainable results you want.
Investing in yourself now, is the best CHOICE you can make for yourself, your future self WILL thank you for it. If there was a backdoor and a way out, you would not be fully standing in your Power and fear blocks you from taking action, resulting in not getting the value you want. The results will not be as impact-full because if you have a security blanket and a “way out” you are more likely to use it when challenges arise, to make excuses for yourself and to not back yourself, which equals you not putting in FULL effort. Back yourself babe, stand IN your power, put you first, take the lead and action - You have got this!
I, Kendall Brown, agree to provide Women’s Life Coaching Services to facilitate the transformation of your desires as per this coaching agreement. We are bound by the Terms and Conditions of this agreement for the length of our Coaching together.
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- Are the calls live? Dates & Times?Yes, the 5 group calls will be live (one each week).
To determine when the calls will be - once the group chat opens, I’ll post a poll with a range of possible call times and everyone votes. From there, we either choose the most popular time or alternate between two top options week to week to keep it fair.
My priority is always making sure everyone can attend as many live calls as possible, but occasionally a call might land at a slightly less convenient time for you, but part of the comittment you are making to yourself is showing up for yourself even when it's not easy or convinent. For example, I'm currently in a certification where I regularly get up for 5am lectures because I know I learn best when I show up live and can participate.
If you can’t make a call live, the recording will be made available within 48hrs. - Im based in _____ country/city/timezone can I still join?Yes absolutely! I’ve had women join my programs from all over the world, and it’s never been a major issue.
I do my absolute best with the call times to make sure everyone can attend as many live calls as possible + I drop into our private group chat pretty much everyday so you will always have my support regardless of where in the world you are! - How does the payment plan work?Your first payment (deposit) secures your spot - you are in the program!
Then following month, on the same day, your card will be automatically charged the same amount (don't worry I don't have access to your card details, it is all encrypted within the globally used payment system I use, Stripe)
If a payment declines/fails for whatever reason you will have 48hrs until it automatically recharges. If it fails again you will be immediately locked out of the program and lose your space.
If you are having issues or card details change, please let me know ahead of time so we can sort this out. - Will I have lifetime access to this course?Yes! You will always have access to the recorded calls and any additional recordings or resources inside Anxious To Secure and if this ever changes you will be notified.
- Do you offer refunds?Your investment in this program is non-refundable. If you decide to pull out part-way through, you will not be refunded anything and you will be contractually obligated to continue paying the remainder of your payment plan (as per the T&Cs you agree to when joining).
Why is it non-refundable?
This work is about commitment, dedication, and taking action. Kendall turns up to every call and message with 100% commitment, and so it is up to you to take your aligned action to get the results. Often, when you have backdoors in other courses and areas of your life, means that fear allows you to not stand in you power and take action, and as a result, you don’t get the true value you want. If you have security blanket, too often you use them, which is why you don’t see results. If you have in the back of your mind that a refund is available, chances are you won’t put in your full effort. The women in this program that experience full mind-body-soul-life results, are the ones that commit 100% to the investment they've made in themselves.
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